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How to Delegate Effectively as a Leader (Without It Coming Back Twice as Messy)
"It's just quicker to do it myself".
You explained the task. You trusted them to run with it. Then the deadline got close, you checked in, and it ended up coming back to you twice as messy as when you gave it away.
Most leaders know they need to delegate more and most want to, yet, after a boomerang like that, doing it yourself starts to look like the sensible option. It is understandable why so many leaders end up saying, "It's just quicker to do it myself.
Short term - yes
Longer term - absolutely not!
Delegation is a learned skill and it is often a lot easier than leaders think.
The missing pieces are a skill or will diagnostic and a checklist, and most leadership courses leave both out.
Here is how to delegate effectively as a leader using the Skill vs Will Matrix, the 5 Rights of Delegation and 4 things to cover in every delegation conversation.
Prefer to watch? The full video is here: How Leaders Can Delegate Without It Coming Back Twice as Messy
Why Does Delegation Keep Boomeranging Back to Leaders?
The same 3 stories come up again and again in my coaching sessions and workshops.
Which one resonates most with you?
Working out and writing out everything that needed doing took so long that doing it yourself was quicker.
The person came back and forth so many times that doing it yourself would have been faster.
They went quiet; you assumed all was well, and the mess arrived with the deadline. Now you have the original task plus the clean-up.
After a few experiences like these it is no surprise that leaders reach the conclusion that delegation doesn't work. The price they end up paying is that they end up spending evenings fixing things and absolutely no room for a week off with zero work, zero stress and zero guilt.
Many leaders then end up questioning if the issue is them: are they a control freak, are they micromanaging, are they poor at communicating, are they just not able to lead others through a delivery that is the high standard they deliver themselves?
Delegation fails because the task was handed over without a skill or will diagnostic and without checking the 5 rights. Leadership courses might cover delegation, autonomy and self-efficacy, yet few give you all of the ingredients to make it work. This blog will help you with this.
What Is Delegation in Leadership?
Delegation is entrusting responsibility and authority to others while you remain accountable. It is not dumping tasks when you are under time pressure; it does not remove you from responsibility, and it is definitely not a 'set it and forget it' mentality.
Giving a task to someone who already has the skill, knowledge and expertise is allocation.
Delegation is a development tool. It builds capacity, develops individuals, creates a confident, self-sufficient team and belongs in your succession planning.
Your job as a leader is to develop a capable team - A team of high performers.
Every task you are doing that your team could be doing, keeps you from the strategic work you are accountable and responsible for.
How to Delegate Effectively as a Leader: Diagnose Skill and Will First
Before you hand anything over, work out whether you are dealing with a skill gap, a will gap, or both.
The Skill vs Will Matrix helps you match your level of empowerment to the person's level of readiness.
Low will | High will | |
High skill | Bring in motivation and incentives. Go back to the 5 rights and check the person and the timing. If the will is low right now, consider postponing. | Delegate with autonomy and authority. |
Low skill | Hold a direct conversation and give specific direction. Go back to the 5 rights and check the person, the task and the scenario. | Give advice, guidance and training. |
Can't do it, won't do it. - Different solutions.
Training given to someone who is unwilling, or motivation given to someone who lacks the skill, sends the task back like the proverbial boomerang.
Right task, right person, wrong time causes the same problem.
The 5 Rights of Delegation: Your Checklist Before You Hand Anything Over
Before you delegate, check that these 5 are right:
The right task
The right circumstance
The right person
The right direction and communication
The right supervision and evaluation
When delegation gets messy, one or more of these 5 has been missed or may even be missing completely.
Direction and communication need to make it clear what a good outcome looks like and when it is due.
Supervision and evaluation need the level of hands-on and hands-off agreed.
Move Leaders From Control to Autonomy Gradually
There is a continuum from control to autonomy. At the start, you need to be more hands-on, giving step-by-step instructions so the person learns the knowledge and skills and how to take the action.
As they repeat the task and find their own way with it, (autonomy and competency), you stay clear on the outcome and what good looks like, and you increase the level of autonomy. The balance moves from 'direction' to 'empowerment'.
Do not jump into autonomy too quickly. That is often where it gets messy. - Great intention, unintended consequence.
Plan it in advance. Starting early means no last-minute tasks with rushed instructions, and when the time comes, it becomes allocation rather than delegation.
Delegation should be part of your longer-term succession planning and team development strategy, rather than a short-term solution to a resource issue.
The 4 Things to Cover in Every Delegation Conversation
Don't skip this conversation or go through it at too high a level. Give the person time to ask questions and add in the detail, so you are both on the same page before it wraps up.
Context and purpose. Why does it matter, what is the bigger picture, and why are you delegating this to them? Share why you think they are a good person for it and share your workings out.
Expected outcomes. What will success look like, how will it be measured, and what are the timelines and milestones?
Authority level. What can they decide independently, what should they bring back for your input and approval, and when should they escalate? Some people push through something you wanted brought to you, so agree this up front.
Support and checkpoints. Where else can they find resources? How will you support them without micromanaging? Agree the check-in rhythm together, because that is the only way to know what micromanaging looks like for them. Check in, not checking up.
What Happens When Leaders Delegate With Development in Mind
Client 'S', said:
"I used to chuck work at anyone hoping it would help me get it done, but would then be stuck with fixing it. I now think about the skill set of the people I delegate to and encourage their development."
Client 'P', a participant on a leadership programme I delivered, said delegation "has been a big one", and described it like this:
"Before I was probably doing the work rather than setting someone else up... you end up training a person up more effectively by giving responsibility while also getting time back yourself."
Both describe the same shift.
The leader gets time back, and the team member gets responsibility.
I'm okay, they're okay.
That balance is what makes delegation sustainable, and it is what keeps everything running smoothly when you are not present.
What to Try Before Your Next Delegation as a Leader
I have shared these frameworks with clients, and I know they work. Before the next task leaves your desk, do 3 things:
Diagnose skill and will. Decide whether it is a can't do it or a won't do it, and choose the support to match. This is the same thinking behind my KSA Bridge Framework™ (Knowledge, Skills, Action): work out what is missing before you decide what to give.
Run the 5 rights as your checklist.
Hold the 4-part delegation conversation and agree on the check-in rhythm.
This is a medium- to long-term solution, and it builds the team that gets you home on time.
Think about the last task that boomeranged back. Which of the 5 rights was missing? Share it in the comments, or send me a question. If you try these and they work, I would love to hear about it.
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I'm Zoë Thompson, leadership and performance specialist, and I help overwhelmed leaders transform from reactive to intentional leadership, so you finish work on time, take The Big Week Off with zero work, zero stress and zero guilt, and create success that feels as good as it looks. Do less, better.
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